Let’s be friends with others

My window overlooks a small childrens playground where children usually play in the evening once I Eavesdrop a conversation and heard a child saying to another “will you be my friend”.

There is a lot implied in that one question. It’s like a pact that says: “will you be with me when I fight with someone”, “will you choose me in your team “,”will you be with with me in my bad times” etc…

Honestly this needs a lot of courage for someone to ask to be your friend… usually adult don’t prefer this except some of them try asking in social media and very often because they have a fear of rejection..

Finding real friendship is a worth.

While it’s true that we often use ‘friend’ term very loosely even for people we don’t know ..Once a girl called me from my school and it took me a quite long time to identify who was she. She was my 2nd class friend or we can say my old classmate. She just called me to know what I am doing in these crazy times.. Literally after a some time. She burst into tears. I was wondering if I said something.. Then I came to know. Apparently , she was lonely and none of her friends has called her to know how was she doing..So she found my no. from social media and called me..

Then I tried to make her happy. And she was stressed that she has no one whom she can call her friend. Then we had a good healthy conversation about 2hr. Then her mood was changed and she was very happy. Then, I gently suggested her why you expect from the other person to call you. Call yourself. It’s not about that the other person only call..

And since then we became good friends ..

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Happy international friendship day..

Let’s be friends..

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